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Forbidden Desire

1933–present·52 films

The full spectrum of relationships societies have deemed forbidden: age gaps, teacher-student dynamics, power imbalances, obsessive desire that crosses social boundaries. From high art-house to pure exploitation, from sympathetic portrayals to horrifying ones. What connects them is that every society draws lines around desire, and these films exist on or beyond those lines.

What a society forbids reveals more about that society than what it permits. Cinema is the medium that has most consistently tested those boundaries.

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Filmography
Ecstasy

Ecstasy

1933

Machatý

Hedy Lamarr. First depiction of female desire and implied orgasm in mainstream cinema. The Pope condemned it.

Phaedra

Phaedra

1962

Dassin

Melina Mercouri obsessed with her stepson. Greek tragedy modernized. The ancient source of all forbidden family desire narratives.

Lolita

Lolita

1962

Kubrick

Nabokov adaptation. Constrained by Production Code. James Mason. Depicted obsession through suggestion and dark comedy.

The Pornographers

The Pornographers

1966

Imamura

Man makes porn while navigating complex family desires. Imamura treated sexual transgression as social anthropology. Two Palme d'Or winner.

Indecent Desires

Indecent Desires

1968

Wishman

Man finds doll that controls a woman's body. Wishman explored obsessive desire and control throughout her career.

Blind Beast

Blind Beast

1969

Masumura

Blind sculptor's obsessive captive desire. Sensory world reimagined.

L'inceste

L'inceste

1970

Yvan Lagrange

French. Early post-censorship exploration of the theme. Part of the wave that followed the Hays Code collapse.

Murmur of the Heart

Murmur of the Heart

1971

Malle

Coming-of-age with incest. Treated with tenderness.

Harold and Maude

Harold and Maude

1971

Ashby

20-year-old man falls in love with 79-year-old woman. Flopped on release, became one of the greatest cult films.

La fille à deux places

1973

La fille à deux places

1973

Claude Pierson

French exploitation. Pierson specialized in literary erotica with forbidden themes.

Flower and Snake

Flower and Snake

1974

Konuma

Nikkatsu Roman Porno. Japanese bondage. Franchise launcher.

The Hot Nights of Linda

The Hot Nights of Linda

1975

Franco

Romay in gothic island mystery.

In the Realm of the Senses

In the Realm of the Senses

1976

Ōshima

THE foundational text. Completely unsimulated lead actors. Based on real 1936 case. Still partially censored in Japan 50 years later.

Empire of Passion

Empire of Passion

1978

Ōshima

Woman and young lover murder her husband. Ghost returns. Won Best Director at Cannes. More restrained than Senses.

Luna

Luna

1979

Bertolucci

Mother cures son's heroin addiction through intimacy. Desperate maternal love. Critics divided. Commercial failure, studied in film programs.

Taboo

Taboo

1980

Kirdy Stevens

Kay Parker. Incest drama. Massive franchise. Culturally notorious.

Tender Cousins

Tender Cousins

1980

David Hamilton

Hamilton's softcore pastoral. Adolescent cousins in French countryside. His signature gauzy aesthetic.

Private Lessons

Private Lessons

1981

Myerson

Housekeeper seduces teenage boy. Mainstream American studio film. Enormous hit. Impossible to make today.

Love Strange Love

Love Strange Love

1982

Walter Hugo Khouri

Brazilian. Boy in a political brothel. Xuxa's controversial film debut. Banned repeatedly.

My Tutor

My Tutor

1983

Bowers

French tutor and American student. Early-80s 'erotic coming-of-age' wave alongside Private Lessons and Risky Business.

Kandagawa Pervert Wars

Kandagawa Pervert Wars

1983

Katsuhiko Fujii

Japanese pink film. Family taboos played as sex comedy. Nikkatsu era.

Alpine Fire

Alpine Fire

1985

Fredi M. Murer

Swiss. Isolated siblings on an Alpine farm. Won Swiss Film Prize. Tender, unsettling. Art-house treatment.

Oriane

Oriane

1985

Fina Torres

Venezuelan. Woman returns to family hacienda, uncovers forbidden memories. Torres won Camera d'Or at Cannes.

Ma no toki

Ma no toki

1985

Masayuki Suo

Japanese. Family desire in horror context. Suo later made the acclaimed Shall We Dance.

Senza vergogna

Senza vergogna

1986

Giovanni Trezza

Italian exploitation. Shameless family transgression. Part of Italy's 1980s erotic drama wave.

Beatrice

Beatrice

1987

Bertrand Tavernier

Medieval France. Father returns from war, terrorizes family including daughter. Tavernier's darkest. Julie Delpy debut.

Il fascino sottile del peccato

Il fascino sottile del peccato

1987

Eriprando Visconti

Italian. Eriprando Visconti (Luchino's nephew) explores forbidden family desire. Aristocratic decadence.

The Ages of Lulu

The Ages of Lulu

1990

Bigas Luna

Spanish. Almudena Grandes adaptation. Woman's sexual awakening includes family transgression. Bigas Luna's provocation.

Close My Eyes

Close My Eyes

1991

Stephen Poliakoff

British. Adult siblings begin affair. Alan Rickman, Clive Owen, Saskia Reeves. Restrained, literary approach.

The Lover

The Lover

1992

Annaud

Duras adaptation. 15-year-old French girl and older Chinese lover in 1920s Vietnam. Jane March. Massive global hit.

The Cement Garden

The Cement Garden

1993

Andrew Birkin

Ian McEwan adaptation. Orphaned siblings in isolation. Charlotte Gainsbourg. British art-house — restrained, literary, psychologically precise.

Spanking the Monkey

Spanking the Monkey

1994

David O. Russell

Russell's debut. Son cares for injured mother. Sundance Audience Award. Before he went mainstream.

Elisa

Elisa

1995

Becker

Vanessa Paradis searches for father who abandoned her, develops complex feelings. Desire tangled with abandonment.

Lolita

Lolita

1997

Lyne

Far more explicit about the horror. Jeremy Irons. Couldn't find US distributor for a year. Most difficult mainstream American release of the 1990s.

The War Zone

The War Zone

1999

Tim Roth

Roth's directorial debut. Father abusing daughter. Devastating. One of the most unflinching British films ever made.

Malèna

Malèna

2000

Tornatore

Monica Bellucci as war widow lusted after by entire Sicilian town including 13-year-old narrator. Desire and cruelty inseparable.

The Piano Teacher

The Piano Teacher

2001

Haneke

Huppert as sexually repressed professor. Fearless.

Visitor Q

Visitor Q

2001

Miike

Dysfunctional family. Nothing off limits.

Oldboy

Oldboy

2003

Park Chan-wook

Imprisoned 15 years. The twist redefines shocking.

The Dreamers

The Dreamers

2003

Bertolucci

Paris 1968. Twins and an American student. Eva Green's debut. Bertolucci's return to explicit territory.

Ma Mère

Ma Mère

2004

Honoré

Isabelle Huppert introduces her son to sexual transgression after his father dies. Based on Bataille. Huppert's most provocative role.

Savage Grace

Savage Grace

2007

Tom Kalin

Julianne Moore as Barbara Baekeland. True story of Bakelite heir family. Mother-son relationship ends in murder.

The Reader

The Reader

2008

Daldry

Kate Winslet and teenage boy. She's later revealed as Nazi war criminal. Winslet won Oscar. Forces reconciliation of desire with complicity.

Dogtooth

Dogtooth

2009

Lanthimos

Children in total isolation. Deeply disturbing.

Sleeping Beauty

Sleeping Beauty

2011

Julia Leigh

Emily Browning. Elderly men pay to sleep beside unconscious women. Power dynamics within quasi-familial structures. Cannes.

The Skin I Live In

The Skin I Live In

2011

Almodóvar

Captive transformation. Identity and desire fused. Antonio Banderas as surgeon.

A Royal Affair

A Royal Affair

2012

Arcel

Danish court drama. Queen's affair with royal physician. Mads Mikkelsen. Historically accurate forbidden desire.

Thérese

Thérese

2012

Miller

Mauriac adaptation. Woman trapped in loveless marriage slowly poisons husband. Audrey Tautou. Desire as escape.

Miss Violence

Miss Violence

2013

Avranas

Birthday hides abuse. Venice Best Director.

Stoker

Stoker

2013

Park Chan-wook

Uncle's arrival awakens niece's dark desires. Shadow of a Doubt reimagined. Nicole Kidman, Mia Wasikowska.

The Diary of a Teenage Girl

The Diary of a Teenage Girl

2015

Heller

15-year-old begins relationship with mother's boyfriend in 1970s SF. Told from her perspective — she has agency, which made critics more uncomfortable.

Crimson Peak

Crimson Peak

2015

del Toro

Gothic horror where sibling dynamics drive the plot. Haunted house genre as exploration of forbidden desire within aristocratic decay.

52 films in Forbidden Desire